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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Shares of common stock par value $0.01 per share of Arbor Realty Trust, Inc. (the&quot;Company&quot;) granted pursuant to the Company's 2017 Omnibus Stock Incentive Plan. One fourth vest on the date of grant, one fourth vest in one year, one fourth vest in two years and one fourth vest in three years.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Represents shares that have been withheld by the Company to satisfy tax-withholding obligations in connection with the vesting of common stock.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Mr. Kaufman disclaims beneficial ownership of these shares of common stock except to the extent of his pecuniary interest therein.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">Each restricted stock unit represents the contingent right to receive one share of common stock upon vesting of the unit.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">The shares of common stock are issuable to Mr. Kaufman if the Company achieves certain total shareholder return objectives for the four-year period ending December 31, 2023, generally subject to continued employement with the Company as of the end of such four-year performance period.</footnote>
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    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Ivan Kaufman</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2020-03-10</signatureDate>
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