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        <issuerName>ARBOR REALTY TRUST INC</issuerName>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">In connection with estate planning, on December 14, 2018, Mr. Kaufman donated 125,000 Partnership Common Units of Arbor Realty Limited Partnership and Special Voting Preferred Shares to a donor - advised fund.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Mr. Kaufman disclaims beneficial ownership of these securities except to the extent of his pecuniary interest therein.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Pursuant to the Partnership Agreement of Arbor Realty Limited Partnership, as amended and restated as of July 14, 2016, each Partnership Common Unit is redeemable at the election of the holder for the cash value of one share of Company's common stock, par value $0.01 per share (the &quot;Common Stock&quot;), which value is generally determined by the average of the daily closing prices for ten (10) consecutive trading days immediately preceding the date of the holder's election of redemption. In lieu of paying a redeeming holder this cash amount, the Company may elect to issue one share of Common Stock for each Partnership Common Unit surrendered for redemption.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">Not applicable.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Ivan Kaufman</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2019-02-12</signatureDate>
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