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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">These options vest over a five year period, with 20% vesting on the date of grant and the remainder on each anniversary thereof in 20% increments.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">These options vest over a ten-year period, with 25% vesting on the first anniversary of the date of grant and the remainder vesting on subsequent anniversaries.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">These shares were granted to Mr. Milne under the Company's Capital Appreciation Plan, an employee benefit plan under Section 16(b)(3) that was approved by the Company's shareholders.  The restriction on transfer expires three years from the date of grant.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">These are &quot;Reload&quot; options granted under the Company's Employee Stock Option plan.  They are fully vested on the date of grant and expire five years from date of grant.</footnote>
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    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>David C. Milne</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2007-02-08</signatureDate>
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