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    <periodOfReport>2005-05-09</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>PROTEIN DESIGN LABS INC/DE</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>PDLI</issuerTradingSymbol>
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    <reportingOwner>
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            <rptOwnerCik>0000900923</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>QUEEN CARY L</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O PROTEIN DESIGN LABS, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>34801 CAMPUS DRIVE</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>FREMONT</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>CA</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>94555</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
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            <isDirector>1</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>0</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle></officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>10000</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>6.625</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
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                    <value>A</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>2049400</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>by trust</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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            <securityTitle>
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                    <value>by trust</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F6"/>
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        </nonDerivativeHolding>
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    <derivativeTable>
        <derivativeTransaction>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Employee Stock Option (right to buy)</value>
            </securityTitle>
            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>6.625</value>
            </conversionOrExercisePrice>
            <transactionDate>
                <value>2005-05-09</value>
            </transactionDate>
            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
            <transactionCoding>
                <transactionFormType>4</transactionFormType>
                <transactionCode>M</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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            <transactionTimeliness>
                <value></value>
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            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>10000</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>0</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>D</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <footnoteId id="F2"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2006-12-14</value>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>10000</value>
                </underlyingSecurityShares>
            </underlyingSecurity>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>110000</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
            <ownershipNature>
                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value></value>
                </natureOfOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
        </derivativeTransaction>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Sale was made pursuant to Rule 144.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Options vest 1/4 on the first anniversary of the vesting date and thereafter vest 1/48 per month.  Only vested options are exercisable.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">By the Dawn Suisun Queen 1995 Irrevocable Trust.  The reporting person disclaims beneficial ownership of all shares owned by such trust, and this report shall not be deemed an admission that the reporting person is the beneficial owner of such shares.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">By the Heather Kugelmass 1995 Irrevocable Trust.  The reporting person disclaims beneficial ownership of all shares owned by such trust, and this report shall not be deemed an admission that the reporting person is the beneficial owner of such shares.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">By the Bret Kugelmass 1995 Irrevocable Trust.  The reporting person disclaims beneficial ownership of all shares owned by such trust, and this report shall not be deemed an admission that the reporting person is the beneficial owner of such shares.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">By the Rachel Kugelmass 1995 Irrevocable Trust.  The reporting person disclaims beneficial ownership of all shares owned by such trust, and this report shall not be deemed an admission that the reporting person is the beneficial owner of such shares.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Sergio Garcia-Rodriguez by Sergio Garcia-Rodriguez, Attorney in Fact for Cary L. Queen</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2005-05-10</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
