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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Disposed of pursuant to a merger agreement between issuer and Computer Associates International, Inc. in exchange for the right to receive $10.75 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">This option granted 03/25/2003, which provided for a 20% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 14,292 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $10.13 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">This option granted 04/25/2003, which provided for a 20% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 5,036 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $12.73 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">This option granted 04/25/2003, which provided for a 20% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 9,255 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $12.73 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">This option granted 12/09/2003, which provided for a vesting of 6.25% quarterly beginning three (3) months after the grant date, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 26,797 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $28.97 per share.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Regina O. Sommer</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2004-11-24</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
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