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        <issuerName>NETEGRITY INC</issuerName>
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            <rptOwnerState>MA</rptOwnerState>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">This option granted 03/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 9,647  shares of Computer Associates common stock for $10.13 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">This option granted 03/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 2,679 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $10.13 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">This option granted 03/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 3,751 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $10.13 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">This option granted 04/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 4,530 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $12.73 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">This option granted 04/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 5,116  shares of Computer Associates common stock for $12.73 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">This option granted 04/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 893 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $12.73 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">This option granted 04/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 1,786 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $12.73 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F8">This option granted 04/25/2003, which provided for a 40% vesting immediately on the grant date with the remainder to vest quarterly over a 3-year period, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 3,751 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $12.73 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F9">This option granted 12/09/2003, which provided for a vesting of 6.25% quarterly beginning three (3) months after the grant date, was assumed by Computer Associates in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 14,515 shares of Computer Associates common stock for $28.97 per share.</footnote>
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    <remarks></remarks>

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        <signatureName>William C. Bartow</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2004-11-24</signatureDate>
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