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    <periodOfReport>2012-03-29</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0000008146</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>ASTRO MED INC /NEW/</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>ALOT</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

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            <rptOwnerCik>0001258010</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>PETRARCA STEPHEN M</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O ASTRO-MED, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>600 EAST GREENWICH AVENUE</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>WEST WARWICK</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>RI</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>02893</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
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            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>Vice President</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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                <value>Stock Option (Right to Purchase)</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                <value>8.35</value>
            </conversionOrExercisePrice>
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                <value>2012-03-29</value>
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                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
            </transactionCoding>
            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>3375</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>0</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>A</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
            </transactionAmounts>
            <exerciseDate>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2022-03-29</value>
            </expirationDate>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
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                </underlyingSecurityShares>
            </underlyingSecurity>
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            </postTransactionAmounts>
            <ownershipNature>
                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Restricted Stock Units</value>
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            <transactionDate>
                <value>2012-03-29</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">This option becomes exercisable in four equal annual installments commencing on the first anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Each restricted stock unit represents a contingent right to receive one share of ALOT common stock.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">The restricted stock units vest in two equal annual installments on the first and second anniversary of the grant date subject to the achievement of certain specified goals relating to the 2013 fiscal year net sales and operating income.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Margaret D. Farrell (Attorney-in-Fact for Stephen M. Petrarca)</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2012-04-02</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
