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        <issuerName>METAL MANAGEMENT INC</issuerName>
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            <rptOwnerName>MCGUINNESS KEVIN</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerStreet2>SUITE 405</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>CHICAGO</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>IL</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>60610</rptOwnerZipCode>
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    Attorney-in-fact</signatureName><signatureDate>2008-08-28</signatureDate></ownerSignature></ownershipDocument>

