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        <issuerName>F&amp;M BANCORP</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>FMBN</issuerTradingSymbol></issuer><reportingOwner>
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            <rptOwnerCik>0001239767</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>GLADHILL MAURICE A</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O F&amp;M BANCORP,</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>P.O. BOX 518</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>FREDERICK</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>MD</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>21705</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
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Each holder of shares of issuer common stock will be entitled to receive $50.3703 in cash, 1.2470 shares of Mercantile common stock or a combination thereof, subject to allocation provisions.</footnote><footnote id="F2">Includes 6 previously underreported shares acquired through stock dividend payments in 1998 and 1999.</footnote><footnote id="F3">These are shares purchased under the Dividend Reinvestment Plan and are being reported voluntarily on this Form 4 in advance of the filing deadline required by a Form 5.</footnote><footnote id="F4">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 1,419 shares of Mercantile common stock for $14.6360 per share.</footnote><footnote id="F5">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 1,324 shares of Mercantile common stock for $20.0930 per share.</footnote><footnote id="F6">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 1,289 shares of Mercantile common stock for $21.7389 per share.</footnote><footnote id="F7">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 546 shares of Mercantile common stock for $24.7318 per share.</footnote></footnotes><remarks></remarks><ownerSignature><signatureName>Maurice A. Gladhill
By: /s/ Gordon M. Cooley
Attorney-in-fact</signatureName><signatureDate>2003-08-14</signatureDate></ownerSignature></ownershipDocument>

