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        <issuerName>F&amp;M BANCORP</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>FMBN</issuerTradingSymbol></issuer><reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
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            <rptOwnerName>WINKLER THOMAS R</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O F&amp;M BANCORP,</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>P.O. BOX 518</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>FREDERICK</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>MD</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>21705</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
            <reportingOwnerRelationship>
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dated as of March 13, 2003, between issuer and Mercantile Bankshares Corporation. Each holder of shares of issuer common stock will be entitled to receive $50.3703 in cash, 1.2470 shares of Mercantile common stock or a combination thereof, subject to allocation provisions.</footnote><footnote id="F3">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 1,142 shares of Mercantile common stock for $14.6384 per share.</footnote><footnote id="F4">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 980 shares of Mercantile common stock for $20.0911 per share.</footnote><footnote id="F5">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 926 shares of Mercantile common stock for $21.7444 per share.</footnote><footnote id="F6">This option was assumed by Mercantile in the merger and replaced with an option to purchase 523 shares of Mercantile common stock for $24.7583 per share.</footnote></footnotes><remarks></remarks><ownerSignature><signatureName>Thomas R. Winkler
By: /s/ Gordon M. Cooley
Attorney-in-fact</signatureName><signatureDate>2003-08-14</signatureDate></ownerSignature></ownershipDocument>

