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        <issuerName>FIRST OAK BROOK BANCSHARES INC</issuerName>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">These DSUs were assumed by MBFI pursuant to the merger agreement and replaced with DSUs of MBFI common stock.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Disposed of pursuant to merger agreement between FOBB and MB Financial, Inc. (MBFI) in exchange for $37.43 per share of value in either cash, MBFi common stock, or a combination of both.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">This option was assumed by MBFI pursuant to the merger agreement and replaced with an option to purchase shares of MBFI common stock.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Michael Stein, BY: Carole Jurkash, his attorney-in-fact</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2006-08-28</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
