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    <periodOfReport>2011-02-04</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0000057055</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>KV PHARMACEUTICAL CO /DE/</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>KV.A/KV.B</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

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        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001455267</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>Parkside Financial Bank &amp; Trust</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>8112 MARYLAND AVE</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>SUITE 101</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>SAINT LOUIS</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>MO</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>63105</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
        <reportingOwnerRelationship>
            <isDirector>0</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>0</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>1</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle></officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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                <value>KV-Pharmaceutical Company Class B Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                <value>2011-02-04</value>
            </transactionDate>
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                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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                    <value>832000</value>
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                <transactionPricePerShare>
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                </transactionPricePerShare>
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                    <value>D</value>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>1402145</value>
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            </postTransactionAmounts>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>Trust Agreement dtd 12/22/1973 fbo Anne S. Kirschner</value>
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                </natureOfOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>KV-Pharmaceutical Company Class A Common Stock</value>
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            <transactionDate>
                <value>2011-02-04</value>
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                    <value>1199426</value>
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                    <value>Trust Agreement dtd 12/22/1973 fbo Anne S. Kirschner</value>
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                <value>KV-Pharmaceutical Company Class A Common Stock</value>
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                <transactionShares>
                    <value>125000</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>3.8147</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>D</value>
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                    <value>1074426</value>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>Trust Agreement dtd 12/22/1973 fbo Anne S. Kirschner</value>
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        <nonDerivativeTransaction>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>KV-Pharmaceutical Company Class A Common Stock</value>
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            <transactionDate>
                <value>2011-02-07</value>
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            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
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                <transactionFormType>4</transactionFormType>
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                    <value>192900</value>
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                    <value>D</value>
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                    <value>881526</value>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>Trust Agreement dtd 12/22/1973 fbo Anne S. Kirschner</value>
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        </nonDerivativeTransaction>
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    <derivativeTable></derivativeTable>

    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">The reporting person converted 832,000 shares of K-V Pharmaceutical Company Class B Common Stock into an equal number of shares of K-V Pharmaceutical Company Class A Common Stock.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">This Form 4 is being filed by Parkside Financial Bank &amp; Trust on behalf of a trust of which it is the successor trustee for the benefit of Anne S. Kirschner under a trust agreement dated 12/22/1973.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Represents a distribution of 192,900 shares of K-V Pharmaceutical Company Class A Common Stock from the trust to its beneficiaries.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Kelly Richert, Executive Vice President</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2011-02-08</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
