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    <periodOfReport>2006-12-31</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>KV PHARMACEUTICAL CO /DE/</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>KVA / KVB</issuerTradingSymbol>
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            <rptOwnerName>CHIBNALL RICHARD H</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>5013 SOUTHRIDGE PARK DRIVE</rptOwnerStreet1>
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            <rptOwnerCity>ST. LOUIS</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>MO</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>63129</rptOwnerZipCode>
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            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>Vice President/Finance</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Option to Purchase</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">These two reported transactions involve an amendment of an outstanding option, resulting in the deemed cancellation of the &quot;old&quot; option and the grant of a replacement option period.  The Option was originally granted on January 2, 1997 and provides for a vesting of 10% on date of grant and in 10% increments on each anniversary date thereafter.  As reported on a Form 4 filed January 3, 2007 (and amended on a Form 4/A filed January 5, 2007), on January 2, 2007, Mr. Chibnall exercised his option to purchase 3,375 of Class A Common Stock at the replacement option price of $4.89 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">These two reported transactions involve an amendment of an outstanding option, resulting in the deemed cancellation of the &quot;old&quot; option and the grant of a replacement option period.  The Option was originally granted on May 21, 2004 and provides for a vesting of 10% on date of grant and in 10% increments on each anniversary date thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">These two reported transactions involve an amendment of an outstanding option, resulting in the deemed cancellation of the &quot;old&quot; option and the grant of a replacement option period.  The Option was originally granted on May 21, 2004 and provides for a vesting of 10% on date of grant and in 10% increments on each anniversary date thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">These two reported transactions involve an amendment of an outstanding option, resulting in the deemed cancellation of the &quot;old&quot; option and the grant of a replacement option period.  The Option was originally granted on November 1, 2005 and provides for a vesting of 10% on date of grant and in 10% increments on each anniversary date thereafter.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Richard H. Chibnall</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2007-10-15</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
