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    <periodOfReport>2004-06-04</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>HAWTHORNE FINANCIAL CORP</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>HTHR</issuerTradingSymbol>
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            <rptOwnerName>JENKINS CARLTON</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>2381 ROSECRANS AVE.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2></rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>EL SEGUNDO</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>CA</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>90245</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
        <reportingOwnerRelationship>
            <isDirector>1</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>0</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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                <value></value>
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                <value>Common Stock Options (right to buy)</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2002-07-23</value>
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                <value>2012-07-23</value>
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                <value>24.3570</value>
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                <value>2004-06-04</value>
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                <value>2013-07-22</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Disposed of pursuant to merger agreement between Issuer and Commercial Capital Bancorp, Inc. (&quot;CCBI&quot;), in exchange for 340 shares of CCBI common stock having a market value of $18.10 on the closing date of the merger.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">This option, which is currently vested and exercisable, was assumed by CCBI in the merger and replaced with options to purchase 28,999 shares of CCBI common stock for $11.27 per share.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">This option, which is currently vested and exercisable, was assumed by CCBI in the merger and replaced with options to purchase 2,899 shares of CCBI common stock for $12.60 per share.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Carlton Jenkins, by Marlyn Braceros, his attorney-in-fact</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2004-06-04</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>

