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        <issuerName>ORLEANS HOMEBUILDERS INC</issuerName>
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            <rptOwnerName>ORLEANS JEFFREY P</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/P ORLEANS HOMEBUILDERS, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>333 STREET ROAD, SUITE 101</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>BENSALEM</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>PA</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>19020</rptOwnerZipCode>
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<officerTitle>Chairman and CEO</officerTitle>
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<expirationDate>
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<value></value>
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<securityTitle>
<value>Convertible Subordinated 7% Note</value>
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<value>1.50</value>
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<value>2003-12-29</value>
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<value>D</value>
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<value>1996-08-01</value>
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<expirationDate>
<value>2005-01-01</value>
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<underlyingSecurityTitle>
<value>Common Stock</value>
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<directOrIndirectOwnership>
<value>D</value>
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<footnotes>
<footnote id="F1">The Reporting Person converted 100,000 shares of Series D Preferred Stock on December 29, 2003, at a conversion rate of 20 shares of common stock per share of Series D Preferred Stock, resulting in his acquisition of 2,000,000 shares of common stock.</footnote>
<footnote id="F2">The Reporting Person disclaims beneficial ownership of all securities held by or in trust for the benefit of his minor children.</footnote>
<footnote id="F3">The Reporting Person is a majority partner in 16A Associates, L.P.</footnote>
<footnote id="F4">The Reporting Person has a 50% interest in Mainard, Inc., which holds 10,000 shares.</footnote>
<footnote id="F5">This security has a conversion rate of 20-for-1.</footnote>
<footnote id="F6">The securities have no expiration date.</footnote>
</footnotes>
<remarks></remarks>
<ownerSignature>
<signatureName>Jeffrey P. Orleans</signatureName>
<signatureDate>2003-12-30</signatureDate>
</ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>

