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    <schemaVersion>X0303</schemaVersion>

    <documentType>4/A</documentType>

    <periodOfReport>2010-05-04</periodOfReport>

    <dateOfOriginalSubmission>2010-05-06</dateOfOriginalSubmission>

    <notSubjectToSection16>0</notSubjectToSection16>

    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0000203248</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>SOUTHERN UNION CO</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>SUG</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001184005</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>ROUNTREE GEORGE III</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O SOUTHERN UNION COMPANY</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>5444 WESTHEIMER ROAD</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>HOUSTON</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>TX</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>77056-5306</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
        <reportingOwnerRelationship>
            <isDirector>1</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>0</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle></officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

    <nonDerivativeTable>
        <nonDerivativeTransaction>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
            <transactionDate>
                <value>2010-05-04</value>
            </transactionDate>
            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
            <transactionCoding>
                <transactionFormType>4</transactionFormType>
                <transactionCode>A</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
            </transactionCoding>
            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>1000</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <footnoteId id="F2"/>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>A</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
            </transactionAmounts>
            <postTransactionAmounts>
                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>73647.1</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F1"/>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>42714.622</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
            <ownershipNature>
                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>Directors' Deferred Compensation Plan</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F3"/>
                </natureOfOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
        </nonDerivativeHolding>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>6841.175</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
            <ownershipNature>
                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>Owned by Spouse</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F4"/>
                </natureOfOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
        </nonDerivativeHolding>
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        <derivativeTransaction>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Options (right to purchase)</value>
            </securityTitle>
            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>25.60</value>
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                <value>2010-05-04</value>
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                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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                    <value>10940</value>
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                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <footnoteId id="F5"/>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>A</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
            </transactionAmounts>
            <exerciseDate>
                <footnoteId id="F5"/>
            </exerciseDate>
            <expirationDate>
                <value>2020-05-04</value>
            </expirationDate>
            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
                </underlyingSecurityTitle>
                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>10940</value>
                </underlyingSecurityShares>
            </underlyingSecurity>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>10940</value>
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            <ownershipNature>
                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
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        </derivativeTransaction>
        <derivativeHolding>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Options (right to purchase)</value>
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            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>16.98</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <footnoteId id="F6"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2019-05-28</value>
            </expirationDate>
            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>14815</value>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>14815</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
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                    <value>D</value>
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        </derivativeHolding>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">The Reporting Person's Form 4 filed on May 6, 2010, incorrectly reflected an amount of securities benefically owned following the reported transaction.  The correct amount of securities beneficially owned following the reported transaction is 73,647.1.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">The award of restricted shares was approved by the Compensation Committee of the Board of Directors (the &quot;Compensation Committee&quot;) on May 4, 2010 (&quot;Grant Date 2010&quot;) pursuant to the Southern Union Company Third Amended and Restated 2003 Stock and Incentive Plan(the &quot;Plan&quot;). The restrictions on the shares associated with this award expire on January 3, 2011. The expiration of the restrictions would be accelerated in the event of (i) a change of control of the Company or (ii) the death or disability of the Reporting Person.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">This information concerns shares held under the Issuer's Directors' Deferred Compensation Plan. This report reflects shares purchased for the plan by the plan trustee, at the sole discretion of the trustee, at such prices as were available on the open market at the time of such purchases.  Information reported herein is based on a plan statement for the period ended December 31, 2009.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">The Reporting Person disclaims beneficial interest in these shares except to the extent of his pecuniary interest therein.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">On May 4, 2010, the Compensation Committee approved an award of stock options pursuant to the Company's Plan. The stock options were awarded at an exercise price of $25.60 per share, which is equal to the closing price on Grant Date 2010. The options awarded will vest in full on January 3, 2011 and will remain exerciseable until the tenth anniversary of Grant Date 2010. The vesting of the options would be accelerated in the event of (i) a change of control of the Company or (ii) the death or disability of the Reporting Person.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">The options are fully vested and exerciseable.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Robert M. Kerrigan, III for George Rountree, III</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2010-02-14</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
