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    <periodOfReport>2008-07-11</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>SOUTHERN UNION CO</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>SUG</issuerTradingSymbol>
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            <rptOwnerName>LINDEMANN GEORGE L</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>767 FIFTH AVENUE</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2></rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>NEW YORK</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NY</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>10153</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
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            <isDirector>1</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>Chairman &amp; CEO</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
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                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <value>2008-07-11</value>
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                <transactionCode>P</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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            <transactionTimeliness>
                <value></value>
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                    <value>774.037</value>
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                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>25.23</value>
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                    <value>Supplemental Deferred Compensation Plan</value>
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                    <value>I</value>
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                    <value>401(K) Plan</value>
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                    <value>Owned by Spouse</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Employee Stock Option (right to purchase)</value>
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                <value>28.48</value>
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                <value>2009-12-09</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Included in this amount is 58,022 shares of restricted stock, which restrictions expire in full on December 17, 2012.  The expiration of these restrictions will be accelerated upon (i) a change of control of the Issuer or (ii) the death, disability or termination of employment without cause of the Reporting Person.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Included in this amount are shares acquired from reinvested dividend proceeds awarded to the Reporting Person as part of the Company's quarterly cash dividend.  The Company makes separate filings for these dividend transactions.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">This information concerns shares held under the Issuer?s Supplemental Deferred Compensation Plan.  Shares purchased for the plan by the plan trustee are purchased at the sole discretion of the trustee, at such prices as were available in the open market at the time of such purchases.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">This information concerns shares held under the Issuer's 401(K) Plan. Information reported herein is based on a plan statement for the reporting period ended December 31, 2007.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">The Reporting Person disclaims beneficial interest in these shares except to the extent of his pecuniary interest therein.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">Each stock option was awarded at an exercise price of $28.48 per share, which was equal to the closing price on December 17, 2007.  The options awarded will vest in full on December 17, 2012.  The vesting of these options will be accelerated in the event of (i) a change of control of the Company or (ii) the death, diability or termination of employment without cause of the Reporting Person.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">The Reporting Person is fully vested in these options and all of these options are currently exercisable.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Robert M. Kerrigan, III for George L. Lindemann</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2008-07-14</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
