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        <issuerName>KIRBY CORP</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>KEX</issuerTradingSymbol>
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            <rptOwnerName>Ivey William G.</rptOwnerName>
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        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>55 WAUGH DRIVE</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>SUITE 1000</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>HOUSTON</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>TX</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>77007</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
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            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>President-Kirby Inland Marine</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Restricted Stock awarded under the 2005 Stock and Incentive Plan for Kirby Corporation.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">The reported price is the weighted average sales price.  The sales were at prices ranging from $71.491 to $71.616 per share.  The reporting person will provide, upon request by the Commission staff, full information regarding the number of shares sold at each separate price.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Option is exercisable 33% after one year, 67% after two years and 100% after three years from date of grant.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>G. Stephen Holcomb, Agent and Attorney-in-Fact</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2013-02-06</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
