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    <periodOfReport>2012-02-28</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>HARTFORD FINANCIAL SERVICES GROUP INC/DE</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>HIG</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
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            <rptOwnerName>Eckerle James M</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>THE HARTFORD</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>ONE HARTFORD PLAZA</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>HARTFORD</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>CT</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>06155</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
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            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>Executive Vice President</officerTitle>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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                <value>Restricted Stock Units</value>
            </securityTitle>
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        </nonDerivativeHolding>
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        <derivativeHolding>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Option</value>
            </securityTitle>
            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>28.91</value>
            </conversionOrExercisePrice>
            <exerciseDate>
                <footnoteId id="F1"/>
            </exerciseDate>
            <expirationDate>
                <value>2021-03-01</value>
            </expirationDate>
            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
                </underlyingSecurityTitle>
                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>27881</value>
                </underlyingSecurityShares>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
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                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
        </derivativeHolding>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Option</value>
            </securityTitle>
            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>20.63</value>
            </conversionOrExercisePrice>
            <transactionDate>
                <value>2012-02-28</value>
            </transactionDate>
            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
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                <transactionFormType>4</transactionFormType>
                <transactionCode>A</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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            <transactionTimeliness>
                <value></value>
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            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>40486</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>0.00</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F2"/>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <footnoteId id="F2"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2022-02-28</value>
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                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">One third of the option became exercisable on March 1, 2012, an additional one third of the option will become exercisable on March 1, 2013 and the remaining one-third of the option will become exercisable on March 1, 2014, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">One third of the option will become exercisable on February 28, 2013, an additional one third of the option will become exercisable on February 28, 2014 and the remaining one-third of the option will become exercisable on February 28, 2015, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Anthony J. Salerno, Power of Attorney for James Eckerle dated January 25, 2012.</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2012-03-01</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
