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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">The option became fully exercisable on February 21, 2005, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">The option became fully exercisable on February 18, 2007, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">The option became fully exercisable on February 15, 2009, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">One-third of the option became exercisable on February 27, 2008, an additional one-third of the option became exercisable on February 27, 2009 and the remaining one-third of the option will become exercisable on February 27, 2010, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">One-third of the option became exercisable on July 30, 2008, an additional one-third of the option will become exercisable on July 30, 2009 and the remaining one-third of the option will become exercisable on July 30, 2010, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">One-third of the option became exercisable on February 26, 2009, an additional one-third of the option will become exercisable on February 26, 2010 and the remaining one-third of the option will become exercisable on February 26, 2011, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">One third of the option will become exercisable on February 25, 2010, an additional one third of the option will become exercisable on February 25, 2011 and the remaining one-third of the option will become exercisable on February 25, 2012, the third anniversary of the grant date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F8">Each restricted unit will be settled in cash on the expiration date for an amount equal to the company's closing stock price on the New York Stock Exchange on the expiration date.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Amanda Grabowski Aquino, by POA for Jonathan R. Bennett dated February 24, 2009</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2009-02-27</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
