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        <issuerName>SOUTHERN UNION CO</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>SUG</issuerTradingSymbol>
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            <rptOwnerName>Bond Robert O</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerStreet1>5444 WESTHEIMER ROAD</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2></rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>HOUSTON</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>TX</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>77056-5306</rptOwnerZipCode>
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            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>SVP, Pipeline Operations</officerTitle>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <transactionCode>A</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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                <transactionPricePerShare>
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                <value>Stock Appreciation Rights</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">This information concerns shares held under the Issuer's 401(k) Plan.  This report reflects shares purchased for the plan by the plan trustee, at the sole discretion of the trustee, at such prices as were available in the open market at the time of such purchases.  Information reported herein is based on the plan statement for the period ended December 31, 2009.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">The options are fully vested and exercisable.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">12,724 cash restricted units were awarded to the Reporting Person on December 17, 2007 (&quot;Grant Date 2007&quot;).  The cash restricted units permit the recipient to receive, on predetermined dates upon expiration of applicable restrictions, cash in an amount equal to a specified number of shares of the Company's common stock valued at the closing price of the Company's common stock on such dates.  Restrictions on the  award will expire in equal installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2007. To date, restrictions have expired on 8,482 of the cash restricted units. Restrictions on the remaining 4,242 will expire on December 17, 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">Stock appreciation rights will be settled in shares of common stock at an exercise price of $28.48 per share, which was equal to the closing price on Grant Date 2007.  The award vests in equal installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2007.  As such, 40,296 stock appreciation rights are currently exercisable. The remaining 20,149 stock appreciation rights will vest on December 17, 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">23,195 cash restricted units were awarded to the reporting person on December 15, 2008 (&quot;Grant Date 2008&quot;).  The cash restricted units permit the recipient to receive, on predetermined dates upon expiration of applicable restrictions, cash in an amount equal to a specified number of shares of the Company's common stock valued at the closing price of the Company's common stock on such dates.  Restrictions on each award expire in equal  installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2008. To date, restrictions have expired on 7,731 of the cash restricted units. Restrictions on an additional 7,732 cash restricted units will expire on December 15, 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">Stock appreciation rights will be settled in shares of common stock at an exercise price of $12.55 per share, which was equal to the closing price on Grant Date 2008.  The award vests in equal  installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2008. As such, 31,778 stock appreciation rights are currently exercisable. An additional 31,779 stock appreciation rights will vest on December 15, 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">11,204 cash restricted units were awarded to the Reporting Person on December 15, 2009 (&quot;Grant Date 2009&quot;). The cash restricted units permit the recipient to receive, on predetermined dates upon expiration of applicable restrictions, cash in an amount equal to a specified number of shares of the Company's common stock valued at the closing price of the Company's common stock on such dates.  Restrictions on the award will expire in equal  installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2009. Restrictions on 3,734 cash restricted units will expire on December 15, 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F8">Stock appreciation rights will be settled in shares of common stock at an exercise price of $21.64 per share, which was equal to the closing price on Grant Date 2009.  The award vests in equal  installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2009. 13,109 stock appreciation rights will vest on December 15, 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F9">9,681 cash restricted units were awarded to the Reporting Person on December 13, 2010 (&quot;Grant Date 2010&quot;). The cash restricted units permit the recipient to receive, on predetermined dates upon expiration of applicable restrictions, cash in an amount equal to a specified number of shares of the Company's common stock valued at the closing price of the Company's common stock on such dates.  Restrictions on the award will expire in equal  installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F10">Stock appreciation rights will be settled in shares of common stock at an exercise price of $24.80 per share, which was equal to the closing price on Grant Date 2010.  The award vests in equal  installments on the first, second and third anniversaries of Grant Date 2010.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Robert M. Kerrigan, III for Robert O. Bond</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2010-12-14</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
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