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            <rptOwnerName>KRAVIS HENRY R</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerName>RAETHER PAUL E</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerName>GREENE JAMES H JR</rptOwnerName>
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    <reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001081716</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>STUART SCOTT M</rptOwnerName>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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            <transactionDate>
                <value>2007-07-03</value>
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            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
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                <transactionPricePerShare>
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                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>See Footnote</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Disposed of pursuant to merger agreement between issuer, Farmers Group Inc. and BWH Acquisition Company in exchange for cash.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">See attached joint filer information.  Information with respect to Messrs.
Golkin, Huth, Navab, Fisher and Michelson may be found on a corresponding Form 4 filed on the date hereof.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Richard Kreider, by Power of Attorney for all Reporting Persons</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2007-07-05</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
