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    <periodOfReport>2010-12-20</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>NEWALLIANCE BANCSHARES INC</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>NAL</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001475423</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>MacInnes Glenn I</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O NEWALLIANCE BANK</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>195 CHURCH STREET</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>NEW HAVEN</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>CT</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>06510</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
        <reportingOwnerRelationship>
            <isDirector>0</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>EVP &amp; CFO</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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                <value>Common Stock</value>
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            <transactionDate>
                <value>2010-12-20</value>
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                <transactionFormType>4</transactionFormType>
                <transactionCode>F</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>11017</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>14.60</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>D</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
            </transactionAmounts>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>27301</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
            <ownershipNature>
                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>Joint w/ Spouse</value>
                </natureOfOwnership>
            </ownershipNature>
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                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>14.60</value>
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                <value>Stock Options</value>
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                <value>11.01</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2010-11-02</value>
            </exerciseDate>
            <expirationDate>
                <value>2019-11-02</value>
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            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
                </underlyingSecurityTitle>
                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>30000</value>
                </underlyingSecurityShares>
            </underlyingSecurity>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>30000</value>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
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        </derivativeHolding>
        <derivativeHolding>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Options</value>
                <footnoteId id="F4"/>
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            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>11.77</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2011-05-31</value>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2020-05-28</value>
            </expirationDate>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>29197</value>
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                    <value>29197</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Representing shares withheld by the issuer for tax liability purposes with respect to the vesting of and removal of restrictions on shares of Restricted Stock previously issued to the Reporting Person and the issuance of Performance shares.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Represents the issuance of Performances shares pursuant to the acceleration of awards previously disclosed in Form 8 - K filings on May 26, 2009 and May 25, 2010.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Stock Options granted pursuant to the NewAlliance Bancshares, Inc. Long-term Incentive Plan vest 1/4 on each May 31 of years 2010 - 2013.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">Stock Options granted pursuant to the NewAlliance Bancshares, Inc. Long-Term Incentive Plan vest 1/4 on each May 31 of years 2011 - 2014.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Glenn I. MacInnes POA by John J. Kiernan, Jr.</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2010-12-22</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
