SEC Form 4

FORM 4		UNITED STATES SECURITIES AND EXCHANGE COMMISSION Washington, D.C. 20549 STATEMENT OF CHANGES IN BENEFICIAL OWNERSHIP Filed pursuant to Section 16(a) of the Securities Exchange Act of 1934 or Section 30(h) of the Investment Company Act of 1940	OMB APPROVAL OMB Number: 3235-0287 Estimated average burden hours per response: 0.5
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1. Name and Address of Reporting Person* ARBOR COMMERCIAL MORTGAGE LLC (Last) (First) (Middle) 333 EARLE OVINGTON BOULEVARD SUITE 900 (Street) UNIONDALE NY 11553 (City) (State) (Zip)	2. Issuer Name and Ticker or Trading Symbol ARBOR REALTY TRUST INC [ ABR ]	5. Relationship of Reporting Person(s) to Issuer (Check all applicable) Director X 10% Owner Officer (give title below) Other (specify below)
	3. Date of Earliest Transaction (Month/Day/Year) 12/16/2010
	4. If Amendment, Date of Original Filed (Month/Day/Year)	6. Individual or Joint/Group Filing (Check Applicable Line) X Form filed by One Reporting Person Form filed by More than One Reporting Person

Table I - Non-Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned
1. Title of Security (Instr. 3)	2. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year)	2A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year)	3. Transaction Code (Instr. 8)		4. Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed Of (D) (Instr. 3, 4 and 5)			5. Amount of Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s) (Instr. 3 and 4)	6. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4)	7. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4)
			Code	V	Amount	(A) or (D)	Price
Common Stock, par value $.01 per share	12/16/2010		J(1)		701,197	D	$5.2(1)	4,682,126	D

Table II - Derivative Securities Acquired, Disposed of, or Beneficially Owned (e.g., puts, calls, warrants, options, convertible securities)
1. Title of Derivative Security (Instr. 3)	2. Conversion or Exercise Price of Derivative Security	3. Transaction Date (Month/Day/Year)	3A. Deemed Execution Date, if any (Month/Day/Year)	4. Transaction Code (Instr. 8)		5. Number of Derivative Securities Acquired (A) or Disposed of (D) (Instr. 3, 4 and 5)		6. Date Exercisable and Expiration Date (Month/Day/Year)		7. Title and Amount of Securities Underlying Derivative Security (Instr. 3 and 4)		8. Price of Derivative Security (Instr. 5)	9. Number of derivative Securities Beneficially Owned Following Reported Transaction(s) (Instr. 4)	10. Ownership Form: Direct (D) or Indirect (I) (Instr. 4)	11. Nature of Indirect Beneficial Ownership (Instr. 4)
				Code	V	(A)	(D)	Date Exercisable	Expiration Date	Title	Amount or Number of Shares

Explanation of Responses:

1. Pursuant to the Second Amended and Restated Management and Advisory Agreement (the "Management Agreement"), dated as of August 6, 2009, by and among Arbor Realty Trust, Inc. ("ART"), Arbor Realty Limited Partnership, Arbor Realty SR, Inc. and Arbor Commercial Mortgage, LLC ("ACM"), ACM is required to repay 100% of a previously advanced incentive fee (the "Fee") paid by ART to ACM in August 2008, 25% of which is due on December 31, 2010, with the balance due on June 30, 2012. Pursuant to the Management Agreement, ACM has elected to return 50% of the Fee in shares of ART common stock (equal to approximately $3.65 million) as of December 16, 2010. Based on the closing price of ART's common stock on such date ($5.20), ACM surrendered 701,197 shares in order to satisfy its obligation to repay 50% of the Fee.

Remarks:

	/s/ Paul Elenio, Chief Financial Officer of Arbor Commercial Mortgage, LLC	12/20/2010
	** Signature of Reporting Person	Date
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