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    <periodOfReport>2024-11-27</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0001253986</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>ARBOR REALTY TRUST INC</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>ABR</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001544002</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>Green William C</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O ARBOR REALTY TRUST, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>333 EARLE OVINGTON BLVD., SUITE 900</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>UNIONDALE</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NY</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>11553</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
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            <isDirector>1</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>0</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle></officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
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    </reportingOwner>

    <aff10b5One>0</aff10b5One>

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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Restricted Stock Units</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                <footnoteId id="F1"/>
            </conversionOrExercisePrice>
            <transactionDate>
                <value>2024-11-27</value>
            </transactionDate>
            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
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            <transactionTimeliness></transactionTimeliness>
            <transactionAmounts>
                <transactionShares>
                    <value>886</value>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>14.80</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>A</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
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                <footnoteId id="F1"/>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock, par value $0.01 per share</value>
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                    <value>886</value>
                </underlyingSecurityShares>
            </underlyingSecurity>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>31378</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
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                    <value>D</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">On November 27, 2024, Mr. Green received 886 fully vested RSUs of the Company in lieu of the dividend equivalent due on Mr. Green's existing RSUs and paid by the Company on November 27, 2024. Mr. Green has elected to defer his dividend equivalents and receipt of the common stock into which the RSUs are converted until his service as a director is terminated, or sooner upon a change in control, pursuant to a pre-established deferral election.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Maysa Vahidi, Attorney-in-Fact for William C. Green</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2024-12-02</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
