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        <footnote id="F1">In 2016, Mr. Kaufman was granted up to 421,348 of Restricted Stock Units, which were issuable based on the achievement of certain four-year shareholder return objectives ending December 31, 2019 of Arbor Realty Trust, Inc. (the &quot;Company&quot;). Based on the Company's results, 421,348 Restricted Stock Units vested.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Represents shares that have been withheld by the Company to satisfy tax-withholding obligations in connection with the vesting of Mr. Kaufman's Restricted Stock Units.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Each Restricted Stock Unit represents the contingent right to receive one share of common stock upon vesting of the unit.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">As previously agreed to, the Company used a portion of the net proceeds received from its December 12, 2019 public offering of 7,475,000 shares of common stock (the &quot;Offering&quot;) to purchase an aggregate of 747,500 shares of the Company's common stock and/or Partnership Common Units (&quot;OP Units&quot;) held by Mr. Kaufman, Arbor Commercial Mortgage, LLC (&quot;ACM&quot;) and Arbor Management, LLC for $13.93 per share, which is the same price at which the underwriters purchased the shares in the Offering.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">Mr. Kaufman disclaims beneficial ownership of these shares of common stock except to the extent of his pecuniary interest therein.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">Each Restricted Stock Unit represents the contingent right to receive one share of common stock upon vesting of the unit.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">Not applicable.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F8">On July 14, 2016, Arbor Realty Limited Partnership, a Delaware limited partnership, issued OP Units to ACM and, therefore, the Company issued Special Voting Preferred Stock (&quot;Preferred Shares&quot;) to ACM. On February 14, 2020, ACM distributed 16,628 OP Units and Preferred Shares with a fair market value of approximately $250,000 to one of its partners for a portion of his respective membership interest. The fair market value was determined using the average closing stock price of the Company from January 31, 2020 to February 13, 2020 of $15.04.</footnote>
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        <signatureName>/s/ Ivan Kaufman</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2020-02-14</signatureDate>
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