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ACCESSION NUMBER:		0001239905-04-000001
CONFORMED SUBMISSION TYPE:	4
PUBLIC DOCUMENT COUNT:		1
CONFORMED PERIOD OF REPORT:	20040126
FILED AS OF DATE:		20040127

REPORTING-OWNER:	

	OWNER DATA:	
		COMPANY CONFORMED NAME:			DERRICO GEORGIA S
		CENTRAL INDEX KEY:			0001239905

	FILING VALUES:
		FORM TYPE:		4
		SEC ACT:		1934 Act
		SEC FILE NUMBER:	000-22836
		FILM NUMBER:		04546293

	BUSINESS ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		ONEIDA LTD
		STREET 2:		163-181 KENWOOD AVE.
		CITY:			ONEIDA
		STATE:			NY
		ZIP:			13421

ISSUER:		

	COMPANY DATA:	
		COMPANY CONFORMED NAME:			SOUTHERN FINANCIAL BANCORP INC /VA/
		CENTRAL INDEX KEY:			0000914789
		STANDARD INDUSTRIAL CLASSIFICATION:	SAVINGS INSTITUTION, FEDERALLY CHARTERED [6035]
		IRS NUMBER:				541779978
		STATE OF INCORPORATION:			VA
		FISCAL YEAR END:			1231

	BUSINESS ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		37 EAST MAIN ST
		CITY:			WARRENTON
		STATE:			VA
		ZIP:			20186
		BUSINESS PHONE:		5403493900

	MAIL ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		37 EAST MAIN ST
		CITY:			WARRENTON
		STATE:			VA
		ZIP:			22186

	FORMER COMPANY:	
		FORMER CONFORMED NAME:	SOUTHERN FINANCIAL FEDERAL SAVINGS BANK
		DATE OF NAME CHANGE:	19931116

REPORTING-OWNER:	

	OWNER DATA:	
		COMPANY CONFORMED NAME:			PORTER R RODERICK
		CENTRAL INDEX KEY:			0001249469

	FILING VALUES:
		FORM TYPE:		4
		SEC ACT:		1934 Act
		SEC FILE NUMBER:	000-22836
		FILM NUMBER:		04546292

	BUSINESS ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		37 EAST MAIN STREET
		CITY:			WARRENTON
		STATE:			VA
		ZIP:			20186
		BUSINESS PHONE:		5403418051

	MAIL ADDRESS:	
		STREET 1:		37 EAST MAIN STREET
		CITY:			WARRENTON
		STATE:			VA
		ZIP:			20186
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        <footnote id="F1">These shares were exchanged to exercise stock options.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">These shares were acquired through the exercise of stock options.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">These shares are owned by Georgia S. Derrico as follows:

a. 43,053 are owned solely by Georgia S. Derrico.

b. 354,594 are owned jointly by Georgia S. Derrico and R. Roderick Porter.

c. 4,605 are owned by Marblehead, Inc., which is jointly owned by Georgia S. Derrico and R. Roderick Porter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">These shares are owned by R. Roderick Porter as follows:

a. 34,360 are owned solely by R. Roderick Porter.

b. 3,797 are owned jointly by R. Roderick Porter and Devon Porter.</footnote>
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