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        <issuerName>ONEIDA FINANCIAL CORP</issuerName>
<issuerTradingSymbol>ONFC</issuerTradingSymbol>
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        <officerTitle>Excutive Vice President and CE</officerTitle>
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                <value>By Esop</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Increase in shares is due to 2002 ESOP allocation for shares earned.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Deresa Rich as Power of Attorney for Eric E. Stickles</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2003-05-15</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>

</ownershipDocument>

