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    <periodOfReport>2005-12-31</periodOfReport>

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    <form3HoldingsReported>0</form3HoldingsReported>

    <form4TransactionsReported>0</form4TransactionsReported>

    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0000203248</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>SOUTHERN UNION CO</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>SUG</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001184013</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>DOWLING HARRY E</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O SOUTHERN UNION COMPANY</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>5444 WESTHEIMER ROAD</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>HOUSTON</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>TX</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>77056</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
        <reportingOwnerRelationship>
            <isDirector>0</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>President of Division</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <value></value>
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                    <value>212.0095</value>
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                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <footnoteId id="F1"/>
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                <transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
                    <value>A</value>
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                    <value>16597.2595</value>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>401(K) Plan</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F1"/>
                </natureOfOwnership>
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        </nonDerivativeTransaction>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
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            <securityTitle>
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                <footnoteId id="F4"/>
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                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <footnoteId id="F8"/>
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            <securityTitle>
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                <value>14.6521</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <footnoteId id="F5"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2011-06-05</value>
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            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
                </underlyingSecurityTitle>
                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>38295</value>
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                    <value>38295</value>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2014-02-06</value>
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            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
                </underlyingSecurityTitle>
                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>22050</value>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
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                    <value></value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Employee Stock Option (right to purchase)</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <footnoteId id="F7"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2015-07-26</value>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>2048</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F8"/>
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                    <value>D</value>
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        </derivativeHolding>
    </derivativeTable>

    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">This information concerns shares held under the Issuer?s 401(k) Plan.  This report reflects shares purchased for the plan by the plan trustee, at the sole discretion of the trustee, at such prices as were available in the open market at the time of such purchases.  Information reported herein is based on a plan statement for the period ended December 31, 2005.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Of these shares, 3,150 shares are restricted shares that vest in 25% increments each year beginning July 26, 2006.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">This information concerns shares held under the Issuer?s Supplemental Deferred Compensation Plan.  This report reflects shares purchased for the plan by the plan trustee, at the sole discretion of the trustee, at such prices as were available in the open market at the time of such purchases.  Information reported herein is based on the plan statement for the period ending December 31, 2005.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">These options vested over a five year period and are currently exercisable</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">Of these options, 30,637 are currently exercisable and the remaining options will be exercisable on July 1, 2006.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">Of these options, 4,410 are currently exerciseable, 4,410 become exercisable on March 1, 2006, 4,410 on March 1, 2007, 4,410 on March 3, 2008 and 4,410 on March 2, 2009.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">These options vest in 25% increments each year commencing July 26, 2006.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F8">Reflects the 5% stock dividend payable on September 1, 2005, to shareholders of record as of August 22, 2005.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Robert M. Kerrigan, III for Harry E. Dowling</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2006-02-14</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
