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    <periodOfReport>2012-02-03</periodOfReport>

    <notSubjectToSection16>0</notSubjectToSection16>

    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0001178970</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>PROVIDENT FINANCIAL SERVICES INC</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>PFS</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
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            <rptOwnerCik>0001237603</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>FEKETE FRANK L</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>239 WASHINGTON STREET</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2></rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>JERSEY CITY</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NJ</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>07302</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
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            <isDirector>1</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>0</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle></officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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                <value>Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                <value>2012-02-03</value>
            </transactionDate>
            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
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                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
            </transactionCoding>
            <transactionAmounts>
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                    <value>6000</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F8"/>
                </transactionShares>
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                    <value>0.00</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
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                    <value>A</value>
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                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
            </postTransactionAmounts>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
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                <value>Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                    <value>1200</value>
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            <ownershipNature>
                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>By Trust</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>By Son</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>I</value>
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                <natureOfOwnership>
                    <value>By Retirement Account</value>
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            <ownershipNature>
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                    <value>By Daughter</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2009-01-29</value>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2018-01-29</value>
            </expirationDate>
            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>3000</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F4"/>
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            <postTransactionAmounts>
                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>3000</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Options</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2008-01-29</value>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2017-01-29</value>
            </expirationDate>
            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>2000</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F5"/>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>2000</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
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        </derivativeHolding>
        <derivativeHolding>
            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Options</value>
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            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>18.55</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2007-02-22</value>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2016-02-22</value>
            </expirationDate>
            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
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                    <value>2000</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F6"/>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Stock Options</value>
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            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>18.57</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2013-07-17</value>
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                    <value>Common Stock</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Shares held by wife as trustee of a trust for their granddaughter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Shares held by wife as trustee of a trust for her grandmother.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Shares held by a custodian for a retirement account f/b/o the reporting person.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">Stock options vest at a rate of 20% per year over a period ending January 29, 2013.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">Stock options vest at a rate of 20% per year over a period ending January 29, 2012.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">Stock options vest at a rate of 20% per year over a period ending on February 22, 2011.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">Stock options vest at a rate of 20% per year over a period ending on July 17, 2008.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F8">Shares of restricted stock vest on February 3, 2013.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ John F. Kuntz, Pursuant to Power of Attorney</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2012-02-06</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
