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            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O ALLOY, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
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            <rptOwnerState>NY</rptOwnerState>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">50,000 shares granted as Restricted Stock under the Company?s Amended and Restated 1997 Employee, Director and Consultant Stock Option and Stock Incentive Plan. Pursuant to the Restricted Stock Agreement under which the grant was made, the Company has the right to repurchase the shares if the grantee leaves the Company?s Board of Directors, which repurchase right will lapse, with respect to 16,667 shares, on February 1, 2005, with respect to an additional 16,667 shares on February 1, 2006 and, with respect to all 50,000 shares, on February 1, 2007.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Vests as to 1,250 shares on each of February 1, 2005, February 1, 2006, February 1, 2007 and February 1, 2008.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Subject to adjustment as provided in the Certificate of Designation filed by Alloy, Inc. with the Delaware Secretary of State on June 15, 2001.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">The convertible preferred stock became convertible upon issuance.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">The maturity date for the convertible preferred stock is June 15, 2005.</footnote>
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    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Peter M. Graham</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2004-08-11</signatureDate>
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