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    <documentType>4</documentType><periodOfReport>2003-09-09</periodOfReport>
    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0001042801</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>STATEN ISLAND BANCORP INC</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>SIB</issuerTradingSymbol></issuer><reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001231060</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>WEISSGLASS ALLAN</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>1535 RICHMOND AVENUE</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2></rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>STATEN ISLAND</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NY</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>10314</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
            <reportingOwnerRelationship>
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Stock</value></underlyingSecurityTitle><underlyingSecurityShares><value>5000</value></underlyingSecurityShares></underlyingSecurity><postTransactionAmounts><sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction><value>5000</value></sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction></postTransactionAmounts><ownershipNature><directOrIndirectOwnership><value>D</value></directOrIndirectOwnership><natureOfOwnership><value/></natureOfOwnership></ownershipNature></derivativeHolding><derivativeHolding><securityTitle><value>Stock Options (Right to buy)</value></securityTitle><conversionOrExercisePrice><value>20.10</value></conversionOrExercisePrice><exerciseDate><value>2003-12-18</value></exerciseDate><expirationDate><value>2012-12-18</value></expirationDate><underlyingSecurity><underlyingSecurityTitle><value>Common Stock</value></underlyingSecurityTitle><underlyingSecurityShares><value>5000</value></underlyingSecurityShares></underlyingSecurity><postTransactionAmounts><sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction><value>5000</value></sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction></postTransactionAmounts><ownershipNature><directOrIndirectOwnership><value>D</value></directOrIndirectOwnership><natureOfOwnership><value/></natureOfOwnership></ownershipNature></derivativeHolding></derivativeTable><footnotes><footnote id="F1">The 50,000 shares were previously reported as indirectly held by the limited liability company.  The reporting person received a distribution of 6,680 shares representing his interest as a general partner.</footnote></footnotes><remarks/><ownerSignature><signatureName>Catherine Arcuri,  Attorney-in-Fact</signatureName><signatureDate>2003-09-09</signatureDate></ownerSignature></ownershipDocument>

