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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Reflects disposition on April 30, 2014 pursuant to a merger agreement by and among ATMI, Inc., Entegris, Inc. and Atomic Merger Corporation, dated as of February 4, 2014 (the &quot;Merger Agreement&quot;).  In accordance with the terms of the Merger Agreement, each share of ATMI common stock was exchanged for $34.00 in cash.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Reflects disposition on April 30, 2014 pursuant to the Merger Agreement.  In accordance with the terms of the Merger Agreement, each option to acquire shares of ATMI common stock was cancelled and converted into the right to receive an amount of cash equal to the excess of $34.00 over the exercise price of such option.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Reflects disposition on April 30, 2014 pursuant to the Merger Agreement.  In accordance with the terms of the Merger Agreement, each deferred share was exchanged for $34.00 in cash.</footnote>
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    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Patrick J. Shima, attorney-in-fact</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2014-04-30</signatureDate>
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