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    <periodOfReport>2012-12-03</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>DXP ENTERPRISES INC</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>DXPE</issuerTradingSymbol>
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    <reportingOwner>
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            <rptOwnerCik>0001031749</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>LITTLE DAVID R</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>7272 PINEMONT DRIVE</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2></rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>HOUSTON</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>TX</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>77040</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
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            <isDirector>1</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>1</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>Chairman &amp; CEO</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
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                <value>DXP Common Stock</value>
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                <value>2012-12-03</value>
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            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
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                <transactionCode>G</transactionCode>
                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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            <transactionAmounts>
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                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>48.14</value>
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                    <value>D</value>
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                    <value>1861025</value>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
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                <value>DXP Restricted Stock Units</value>
            </securityTitle>
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                <value>0</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
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            </exerciseDate>
            <expirationDate>
                <footnoteId id="F1"/>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>DXP Common Stock</value>
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                </underlyingSecurityShares>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">The terms of the grant provide for vesting in equal amounts over ten years on the anniversary date of the grant, October 24, 2008.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">The terms of the grant provide for vesting in equal amounts over three years on the anniversary date of the grant.  Grant date March 31, 2011</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">The terms of the grant provide for vesting in equal amounts over three years on the anniversary date of the grant.  Grant date March 31, 2012</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>David R. Little</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2012-12-04</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
