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    <schemaVersion>X0201</schemaVersion>

    <documentType>4</documentType><periodOfReport>2003-08-06</periodOfReport>
    <issuer>
        <issuerCik>0001024787</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>MODEM MEDIA INC</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>MMPT</issuerTradingSymbol></issuer><reportingOwner>
        <reportingOwnerId>
            <rptOwnerCik>0001171715</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>OCONNELL GERALD MOORE</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>230 EAST AVENUE</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2></rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>NORWALK</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>CT</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>06855</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
            <reportingOwnerRelationship>
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Attorney-in-Fact</signatureName><signatureDate>2003-08-06</signatureDate></ownerSignature></ownershipDocument>

