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<documentType>4</documentType><periodOfReport>2003-05-06</periodOfReport>
<issuer><issuerCik>0001024787</issuerCik>
        <issuerName>MODEM MEDIA INC</issuerName>
<issuerTradingSymbol>mmpt</issuerTradingSymbol></issuer><reportingOwner><reportingOwnerId><rptOwnerCik>0001171706</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>ALLEN ROBERT C II</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>  </rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>  </rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>  </rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>  </rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>  </rptOwnerZipCode>
        </reportingOwnerAddress>
<reportingOwnerRelationship>
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id="F1"/></transactionShares><transactionValue><value>3</value></transactionValue><transactionAcquiredDisposedCode><value>D</value></transactionAcquiredDisposedCode></transactionAmounts><postTransactionAmounts><sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction><value>423078</value></sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction></postTransactionAmounts><ownershipNature><directOrIndirectOwnership><value>D</value></directOrIndirectOwnership><natureOfOwnership><value></value></natureOfOwnership></ownershipNature></nonDerivativeSecurity><footnotes><footnote id="F1">The Reporting Shares were sold pursuant to a sales plan agreement entered by the Reporting Person and Morgan Stanley &amp;amp; Co. Incorporated made effective November 5, 2002, which complies with the requirements of Rule 10b-5-1(c)(1) under the Securities and Exchange Act of 1934, as amended.</footnote></footnotes><ownerSignature><signatureName>Sloane Levy, Attorney-in-Fact</signatureName><signatureDate>2003-05-06</signatureDate></ownerSignature></ownershipDocument>

