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    <periodOfReport>2008-05-15</periodOfReport>

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        <issuerName>WASHINGTON POST CO</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>WPO</issuerTradingSymbol>
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            <rptOwnerName>GRAHAM DONALD</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O THE WASHINGTON POST COMPANY</rptOwnerStreet1>
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            <rptOwnerCity>WASHINGTON</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>DC</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>20071</rptOwnerZipCode>
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            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>COB and CEO</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
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            <securityTitle>
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                <directOrIndirectOwnership>
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                    <value>Trusts for Children</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Class A Common Stock</value>
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    <derivativeTable></derivativeTable>

    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">The reporting person disclaims any beneficial ownership of these securities.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">The reporting person disclaims any beneficial ownership of these shares. In addition to the direct and indirect ownership of Class B shares herein, I am one of five trustees of a charitable trust which owns 26,339 Class B shares in which I disclaim any beneficial ownership.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ Veronica Dillon for Donald E. Graham</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2008-05-19</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
