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    <periodOfReport>2015-11-23</periodOfReport>

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    <issuer>
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        <issuerName>SUN BANCORP INC /NJ/</issuerName>
        <issuerTradingSymbol>SNBC</issuerTradingSymbol>
    </issuer>

    <reportingOwner>
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            <rptOwnerCik>0001644186</rptOwnerCik>
            <rptOwnerName>D'Imperio Anthony M</rptOwnerName>
        </reportingOwnerId>
        <reportingOwnerAddress>
            <rptOwnerStreet1>C/O SUN BANCORP, INC.</rptOwnerStreet1>
            <rptOwnerStreet2>350 FELLOWSHIP ROAD, SUITE101</rptOwnerStreet2>
            <rptOwnerCity>MOUNT LAUREL</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NJ</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>08054</rptOwnerZipCode>
            <rptOwnerStateDescription></rptOwnerStateDescription>
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            <isDirector>0</isDirector>
            <isOfficer>1</isOfficer>
            <isTenPercentOwner>0</isTenPercentOwner>
            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>SVP/Chief Credit Officer</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
        </reportingOwnerRelationship>
    </reportingOwner>

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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
            </securityTitle>
            <transactionDate>
                <value>2015-11-23</value>
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            <deemedExecutionDate></deemedExecutionDate>
            <transactionCoding>
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                <equitySwapInvolved>0</equitySwapInvolved>
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                    <value>3000</value>
                    <footnoteId id="F1"/>
                </transactionShares>
                <transactionPricePerShare>
                    <value>0.00</value>
                </transactionPricePerShare>
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                    <value>A</value>
                </transactionAcquiredDisposedCode>
            </transactionAmounts>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>6558.9</value>
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                    <footnoteId id="F3"/>
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                    <value>D</value>
                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Incentive Stock Option (right to buy)</value>
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                <value>15.00</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2013-09-20</value>
                <footnoteId id="F4"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2022-09-20</value>
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            <underlyingSecurity>
                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
                </underlyingSecurityTitle>
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                    <value>1000</value>
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            </underlyingSecurity>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>1000</value>
                </sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
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                </directOrIndirectOwnership>
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                <value>Incentive Stock Option (right to buy)</value>
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            <conversionOrExercisePrice>
                <value>17.85</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2014-03-01</value>
                <footnoteId id="F5"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2023-03-01</value>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
                    <value>Common Stock</value>
                </underlyingSecurityTitle>
                <underlyingSecurityShares>
                    <value>1087</value>
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                <sharesOwnedFollowingTransaction>
                    <value>1087</value>
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                    <value>D</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Incentive Stock Option (right to buy)</value>
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                <value>16.8</value>
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            <exerciseDate>
                <value>2015-03-03</value>
                <footnoteId id="F6"/>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2024-03-03</value>
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                <underlyingSecurityTitle>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Award of Restricted Stock.  The shares shall vest 100% on June 30, 2017.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Total includes 3,000 shares of Restricted Stock granted on November 23, 2015 which vests 100% on June 30, 2017.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Total includes 3,000 shares of Restricted Stock granted on September 29, 2014 which vests 100% on September 29, 2016.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">25% is first earned and exercisable on September 20, 2013 and 25% annually thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">20% is first earned and exercisable on March 1, 2014 and 20% annually thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">20% is first earned and exercisable on March 3, 2015 and 20% annually thereafter.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Anthony M. D'Imperio</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2015-11-24</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
