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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Exercisable as of date of grant.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">25% is first earned and exercisable on September 24, 2010 and 25% annually thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">First exercisable at the rate of 1/5 one year from the date of grant and 1/5 annually thereafter during such periods of continued service as a director.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">Vesting 50% on December 31, 2014 and 50% on December 31, 2015.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Sidney R. Brown</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2014-03-04</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
