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        <issuerName>SUN BANCORP INC /NJ/</issuerName>
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            <rptOwnerName>GEISEL THOMAS X</rptOwnerName>
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            <rptOwnerStreet1>226 LANDIS AVENUE</rptOwnerStreet1>
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            <rptOwnerCity>VINELAND</rptOwnerCity>
            <rptOwnerState>NJ</rptOwnerState>
            <rptOwnerZipCode>08360</rptOwnerZipCode>
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            <isOther>0</isOther>
            <officerTitle>President &amp; CEO</officerTitle>
            <otherText></otherText>
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                    <value>Stock Plan 1/29/13</value>
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            <expirationDate>
                <value>2018-01-07</value>
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                <value>Non-Qualified Stock Option (right to buy)</value>
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                <value>2012-01-21</value>
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                <value>2020-01-21</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">10% earned and non-forfeitable as of the date that is two years from the effective date of such award and 20% three years from the effective date, 30% four years from the effective date, and 40% five years from the effective date.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">25% first earned and non-forfeitable on September 24, 2010, and 25% annually thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">The restricted stock is immediately earned and awarded, provided that such Stock Award shall be subject to a restriction on transfer for a period of one year following the Date of Grant.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F4">Awarded and administered as per the approved 2010 Performance Equity Plan.  Maximum options that become earned and exercisable if Board established long-term performance objectives are achieved by 12/31/2013.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F5">25% is first earned and exercisable on 1/7/2010, and 25% annually thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F6">Stock Option shall be 100% earned and exercisable as of the date that is two years from the effective date of such award.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F7">25% is first earned and exercisable on September 24, 2010 and 25% annually thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F8">20% is first earned and exercisable on 3/1/13, and 20% annually thereafter.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F9">Shares shall be 100% earned and non-forfeitable as of the date that is five years from the effective date of such award.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F10">Various dates and prices during 2013.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Thomas X. Geisel</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2013-01-29</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
