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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">Shares of common stock which were disposed of in exchange for the right to receive $14.50 per share in cash pursuant to the Agreement and Plan of Merger, dated August 21, 2012, by and among Sunrise Senior Living, Inc., Brewer Holdco, Inc., Brewer Holdco Sub, Inc., Health Care REIT, Inc. and Red Fox, Inc. (the &quot;Merger Agreement&quot;).</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Restricted stock units which were cancelled in exchange for the right to receive $14.50 per share in cash pursuant to the Merger Agreement. These restricted stock units vested automatically immediately prior to the consummation of the merger on January 9, 2013 in accordance with the terms of the Merger Agreement.</footnote>
        <footnote id="F3">Performance units which were cancelled in exchange for the right to receive $14.50 per share in cash pursuant to the Merger Agreement.  Performance units covering 2011-2013 vested automatically at the maximum level immediately prior to the consummation of the merger on January 9, 2013 in accordance with the terms of the Merger Agreement.  Performance units covering 2012-2014 vested automatically at the target level immediately prior to the consummation of the merger on January 9, 2013 in accordance with the terms of the Merger Agreement.</footnote>
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    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>/s/ C. Marc Richards</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2013-01-11</signatureDate>
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