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        <issuerName>SUNRISE SENIOR LIVING INC</issuerName>
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    <reportingOwner>
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    <reportingOwner>
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            <rptOwnerName>Carlson Clint Duane</rptOwnerName>
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                    <value>See footnotes (1)(2)</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>See footnotes</value>
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            <securityTitle>
                <value>Common Stock</value>
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                    <value>I</value>
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                    <value>See footnotes</value>
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                <value>Common Stock</value>
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    <footnotes>
        <footnote id="F1">The shares of Common Stock to which this relates are held directly by Black Diamond Offshore Ltd., a Cayman Islands exempted company (&quot;Offshore&quot;), Double Black Diamond Offshore Ltd., a Cayman Islands exempted company (&quot;Double Offshore&quot;), Black Diamond Relative Value Offshore Ltd., a Cayman Islands exempted company (&quot;Relative Value Offshore&quot; and together with Offshore and Double Offshore, the &quot;Funds&quot;) and three managed accounts (collectively, the &quot;Accounts&quot;).</footnote>
        <footnote id="F2">Carlson Capital, L.P., a Delaware limited partnership (&quot;Carlson Capital&quot;) serves as the investment manager to, and has the power to direct the affairs of, the Funds. Asgard Investment Corp., a Delaware corporation (&quot;Asgard&quot;) serves as the indirect general partner of, and has the power to direct the affairs of, Carlson Capital. Mr. Clint D. Carlson, a U.S. citizen, serves as the president of, and has the power to direct the affairs of, Asgard and Carlson Capital.  Each of the reporting persons disclaims beneficial ownership of the securities to which this Form 4 relates for the purposes of Section 16 of the Securities and Exchange Act of 1934, as amended, except as to such extent of the reporting person's pecuniary interest in the securities.</footnote>
    </footnotes>

    <remarks></remarks>

    <ownerSignature>
        <signatureName>Carlson Capital, L.P., /s/ Clint D. Carlson, President</signatureName>
        <signatureDate>2012-04-04</signatureDate>
    </ownerSignature>
</ownershipDocument>
